Kids amaze me. They really do. They have a sense of the world that is so much greater than an adults sometimes.
Last week, we were on our way to Karate one night and Zack said "Is God alive?" And I explained that God was alive in heaven. He said "oh." A few minutes later, he said "I'll be up there with him one day." This kind of threw me for a loop bc I wasnt expecting it to come out of his mouth. I tiptoed around the rest of the conversation, but asked "why do you say that?"... his reply.... "well, everyone dies, Mom." 6 yr old matter-of-factness at its best.
On Valentine's Day, Scott's granny died. It all happened around 745 pm. We got this frantic call from Scott's Mom around 8pm. Something was heard about "daddy said mom died, were on our way." And that left us with confused looks on our faces staring at each other reliving the call that was just made to us. We didn't really believe it at first. Papaw had some moments in the past where he had freaked before and jumped to conclusions, so we were awaiting word that this was or was not one of them. This time, he had not over reacted.
Anyway, the boys got to see her a week ago. Zack knew she wasn't doing well and that she was very sick. I told him this morning so Scott wouldn't have to. He took it like a 6 yr old man. Very matter-of-fact like. He asked if we could see her today when we went down to visit, and I said no.. that she wasnt there anymore. He said "so shes already been buried?" I said, "no, not yet." but thankfully he left it at that and I didn't have to try and explain the other parts.....
Scott and I went down to Granny's today and stayed most of the day. It wasn't as bad as I had expected, honestly. This is not something that came as a GREAT shock..although it was shocking in the fact that it happened when it did....we excpected it when she was in the hospital, not really after she had been released. But, thankfully, she went in her OWN bed, in her OWN house, and peacefully.
We left the boys with my mom today so we could go visit, since we didn't really know what to expect from the mood that would surround the house. They had a blast of course, and when we got home, Zack asked if we got to see Granny. We said, "no, not today." obviuosly he doesnt quite get this, so he said "did she look like this?" and at layed his head to the side, eyes closed, tongue out...LOL... you cant help but laugh.. we changed the subject quick enough haha...
he also asked me "so who is papaw going to marry now? is he going to get a new wife?" I told him that no, papaw, would probably never marry again since he was so old and loved Granny so much. He said "well, whose going to take care of him? he has to have a wife to take care of him." Again, we explained that the family would take care of papaw and that he would be fine.....
Kids have an amazing sense of the world and things that are higher than us. Their faith is unshaken and it makes me proud of him to hear him say things like this....Granny would be proud.